Marriage is adult men and women to double game

In the highly developed modern networks, online video can be seen everywhere, a huge explosion of network technology information age, more and more young men and women in the acceptance of gender knowledge of the pipeline, is no longer limited to parents' experience tutoring. Western sexual attitudes of the bold, modern sexual contact detained continuously break through, so that many young men and women have a more convenient internship opportunities that now more and more young people's attitude towards marriage, with the more and more personalized options.

    Now, the attitude of young people toward marriage has become more casual and more casual, the combination of two people as friends, want can be very impulsive when together on the registration of marriage, quarrel odds or even just The trifle can also bloom downtown divorce court, and many young people seem to view marriage as a place to show their personality, as well as modern man's marital status is difficult to stable and gradually become a fragile glass.

    Many young people in the "defense of marriage" TV series saw Zhao Baogang to defend his marriage to prevent sticking to prevent third party interference as the main content to defend their marriage, they ignore the excessive show of management control freak personality mode, may often be the marriage the other half of a great deal of psychological pressure, and let the marriage of the two sides time to share and fully experience the joy of life and spiritual marriage brings, but rather people involuntarily marriage love the feeling of the grave, do not know if this is insult to love, respect or love for this people, the most appropriate should not marriage but cohabitation, after all, not a live human being wants to live in ideological oppressiveness place, even the action is strictly bundle.

    Many young people with marital problems is the envy of concord and harmony of the marriage of others, in fact, they do not know the standards of a happy marriage is reflected in the parties respect for love, mutual accommodation on the polished edges and corners of seeking common ground while reserving differences, reflected in the only common no personality, especially the Chinese traditional concept of marriage is love focused on the release of the occasion, emphasis is Fuchangfusui, the wife of your husband Rong, therefore, too much emphasis in marriage his own personality will certainly lead to marriage eventually failed an important factor.

    Many young people in love can restrain its own personality, can be very hard for both sides to the request are mostly actively cooperate with, and some people even appeared very personalized, absolute obedience and toe on both sides of the ideological trend, sobe possible into the marriage hall. However, with the two men from morning till evening, has been suppressed personality will gradually exposed, in particular, is a considerable period of time by the torture of each other's personality, it is difficult to avoid will not become the flashpoint of a broken marriage.

    In fact, for the people of marital relations is not very harmonious or are getting divorced, it may be a good reflection of the role played in the marriage, it too to show their individuality? If there is a want to impose their own personality on the actions of others to accept? Is difficult to tolerate each other with their integration of the personality of emotional rebellion? If there is, it shows that the greatest impediment to yourself too powerful personality has become a harmonious marriage should be adjusted to your own personality, rather than geared to hate each other with your personality clashes, or the two sides were unable to find the intersection of personality integration point, if opinionated will gradually into the personality of the blind, the vast majority of such marriages is a tragedy.

    Since marriage is a need to both men and women work together to team performance, since the marriage can not show personality, then, only polished personality edges, only the heart is inclusive of the heart, only to give another chance in the other party made mistakes. only understand the business of marriage, marital relations will be living in harmony only with mutual respect and seeking common ground while reserving differences will have a lifetime of marriage.